Sunday, June 22, 2008

Kenters


I feel a tad guilty when one of the boys is acting a bit out of control, and I silently think to myself, "I hope they are sick." What I mean by that is, I hope that there is an explanation to this behavior. I hope this isn't who they are, but rather how they are acting because they don't feel good.

Kent has been exceptionally difficult lately, and I have been looking for signs of physical discomfort. I figure if he were in pain, than that would be why he is throwing tantrums or throwing toys when he doesn't get his way.

The big "2" is only a few days away for Kenters, and the "terrible" adjective that usually proceeds this age, is ringing true. He is constantly throwing tantrums when I say "No". I usually walk away in hopes of sending him the message, "this tantrum is not going to get you want you want." Then I have tried time-outs, but he doesn't seem to fully grasp the fact that sitting in a chair is punishment. He smiles through the duration of his punishment, and the other day he giggled and said, "mommy pretty." On second thought, maybe he knows full well what he is doing!

Regardless, I have been attempting to figure out what has initiated this out of control behavior.

Finally, last night, the glorious happened. His nose began to run. I have never been so relieved to see snot in all my life. Maybe he is acting this way because he is sick, or has allergies, or is getting his two year molars. I hope I hope I hope!

I am praying that this recent behavioral digression is due to a physical issues, and that a brief stint of anitbiotic will fix him.

Unfortunately, I don't think there is an medication out there to cure the terrible twos.

4 comments:

mscottberg said...

Bethany,
They posed a question on WGN that I wanted to ask you. Do you root for the White Sox when they are playing other teams?

(the other) Dr. Laura said...

Bethany-
I loved your post, because I've had the same "I sure hope he's getting sick!" reaction, LOL.

But I wonder if it's possible that Kent is trying to tell you something, and ignoring it only makes it worse? Research shows that if you get down on the toddler's level and empathize with their feelings (as in "You are so mad! You wish you could stay out and play!") they often stop tantrumming. (You don't give in, you just show them you understand. It makes a big difference to feel understood.) Just a thought.

Laura

Mike Stenglein said...

Hey...Isn't it Kent's B-day today?
If so, Happy Birthday to the little man!!! If not, chalk it up to it being really early and me being tired!

Bethany Patrice said...

Update..I just got back from the doctor and poor Kenters does have an ear infection.